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Red Flags

 

Red FlagsHis Hands

His hands, they never hit me sober.
His hands, they never marked my face.
I would rather be blind than see him treat me that way.
I would rather be deaf than hear that sound.
Like a pistol cracking, as the spirit breaks
and love comes tumbling down.

He learned it from his father, and from his father's wife.
He learned from the preacher who told her they were married for life.
And if I'd had his children, they might have learned from me.
I finally ran when I saw that his hands would sign that legacy.

So come all you pretty women who think that you're too smart
and learn from one who loved a damaged heart.
There are some things you can gamble.
There are some things you can change
but you can't change a man with the law in his hand.
It's like trying to drown the rain


Artist.Composer: Janis Ian
Album: Breaking Silence

Ten Warning Signs of an Abusive Relationship

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Typical warning signs of teen dating violence do not look like black eyes and bloody lips. They look like small, almost dismissable, jealousy factors. Here are some signs: Belittles you in front of others. Calls you names, then tells you I was just kidding. Gets angry when you do something on your own, or with someone else without them. Gets jealous when you are around other people, especially of the opposite sex. Needs to know where you're at all the time. Makes you feel obsolete or stupid in front of others. Makes you feel bad about yourself. Makes you feel ugly or insecure. Tells you that your family and friends hate him (her) and then tries to separate you from them. Goes through your cell phone to look at who you have been texting or calling. Tries to control the way you dress or the amount of makeup you wear.Betrayed

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Please heed any red flags. Seek to develop, learn to recognize, and trust your inner intuition. Dont dismiss what you or your friends may be going through. Adult domestic violence usually starts with teen dating violence. Please get help and stop the cycle of abuse.

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Texas Council on Family Violence